Get Your Jollies Watching or Listening (or being watched).
Eat me! . . . Lets party naked! Those were the words playfully and seductively whispered into my ear, purred by the one and only legendary Porn Star, Nina Hartley-recently here in town. Nina was sitting in my lap, her legs spread as my hands firmly grasped her right next to home base. O000!!! What a thrill. Nina emanates erotic stimuli to all the senses: sight, smell, touch, sound, nothing is left out. Any one of those sensations is enough to get a person off. Most everything in our lives can strike a sexual fantasy, memory, or unconscious desires. We are flooded with sexual symbolism every day.
My point is, most anything can cause arousal. For example,agoraphilia., the technical term for people who are sexually aroused by being in public places. They like to be in close crowds and/or have sex in their backyard, public parks, on the beach or other exposed areas. They experience an exhilarated level of excitement from being sexual outdoors. Several times I have come across couples having sex in the woods or behind bushes. Since I am an avid voyeur, their uncovering was my delight. I personally feel that people who have sex in public places are exhibitionists and enjoy getting caught. Therefore, one should not feel shy about watching, while the performers should welcome and encourage their on-lookers.
Several years ago, I was in Europe for a short time, and I quickly became aware of an event called amomoxia,literally translated to sex-in-parked-cars. Unknown to me, this was a common sport where people would watch couples having sex in parked cars. The English slang for this was dogging. Charmed!! The couples clearly enjoyed performing for the viewers. There are specific parking areas that have become known for this activity. And to avoid any doubt about wanting to be watched, the couples will turn on a colored interior light as a signal its okay. Puts dew on my lily!!!
Another tremendously erotic stimuli, which is rarely talked about, is sound or listening. Acousticophilia is the term for people who become sexually aroused by sounds. This can include moaning and groaning in a porn film, or gasping and screaming upon orgasm on an audio tape. When someone is eavesdropping on others hot and heavy lovemaking, without them being aware, it is called ecouteurism. This non-consensual eavesdropping often acts as an aid for masturbation. Most people are aroused by unintentionally overhearing a couple having sex. It is like being an auditory voyeur. Which is a perfectly normal reaction by the way. Whew!!!! O0000!!! True confession time makes me tell you I have experienced that several times.
If that has happened to you, dont feel guilty. In fact some people become sexually aroused by knowing that others may be aware of their lovemaking. And if that is the case, it works out for everyone! As you can see, there are a zillion ways to get your jollies! And as always, if no one is doing anything against their will, I say GO FOR IT!!!
I know sometimes the Holidays can be a lot to swallow, but we can talk about that next year. Have fun! From Snickers (Snatch-lady) Labarr. www. labarr.com or voice mail: (503) 727-2491.